I swear to god I have found my soul mates in my best friends and I’m the luckiest damn person to have the people I do. Spent years feeling like I was always the person who cared more and tried harder and to finally be surrounded by people who love me the same way I love them is absolutely amazing
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1979 /// Smashing Pumpkins
Someone asked me today if I am stressed out that I haven’t started my 8 page final due on Wednesday. Why would I be stressed out? It’s going to get done, right? Then what is there to worry about? This is the way I think and it didn’t occur to me until recently that this is not the way some other people think.
we’re biting our nails.
you’re biting my lip.
i’m biting my tongue.
Played 340 times
He won’t make love to me now
Not now, I’ve set the fee
He said it’s too much in pounds
I guess I’m stuck with me
He told me I was so small
I told him “Water me
I promise I can grow tall
When making love is free”
I have never been more grateful than to have grown up in Calvert County. Always in good company.
a girl told my friend to “have some respect” for herself because there was a topless picture of her on twitter. that made me sad because someone told that girl that her respect for herself is decided by whether or not she shares her body with other people. that makes me sad because if that girl ever decides to share her body with someone else, publicly or privately, then she will think she compromised her self respect to do it. it makes me sad because someone isn’t teaching girls when they are young that their self respect comes from being able to feel in control of their lives and feeling like a valued, capable person and not from how many people they feel like sharing themselves with. but instead the focus was on hiding her boobies. her boobies, which, by the way, are no different from a man’s boobies. women’s breast: nipple, areola, fatty tissue, ducts for milk. men’s breast: nipple, areola, fatty tissue. the only difference is one has been involuntarily sexualized.
i think the best thing a person can have is self respect. it’s really the foundation for a lot of important life skills. what a wonderful thing to promote… when what’s being promoted is actual self respect and not oppression. just sad. first i was frustrated, but now i’m just sad because it feels irreversible. i hope i’m wrong. i hope it is different for my daughters.
not saying i think everyone should walk around naked all the time— (though that doesn’t sound so bad)— just saying
it’s a fucking nipple.